pre-teen boys being neutered by radical feminist organization: Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org)
Teen boys wearing sweats with “Awaiting Instructions” emblazoned on the front? What is all this crap from something called the Family Violence Prevention Fund about?
“Respect Girls”? what do you think of this horrible ad de-balling innocent teen and pre-teen looking boys? Why should young teens wear t-shirts or sweats with the words: “Awaiting Instructions” pasted across the front?
Ad for "Family Violence Prevention Fund"
Since when are young boys abusing anyone? Do these children look like abusers? This gives new meaning to child abuse!
“Awaiting Instructions”? From whom? For What? Where did this come from? What did this poor kid do to be branded an abuser and told to await instructions?
Looks like the folks at the Family Violence Prevention Fund, (endabuse.org) want to turn our young boys into feminized Zombies, ball-less geldings, waiting to be awoken by a superior race and given some type of instructions.
The ad rotates with different pictures of young boys, with the bold text “RESPECT GIRLS” and the boys, all about ten years old or less, wearing the words: “Awaiting Instructions” on their shirts or sweats.
“Respect Girls”? What girls? Why? What did boys do to deserve this insult? Why denigrate an entire gender based upon some perceived wrong?
Why do girls need to be respected more than boys? Why not “respect boys”? Why not “Respect each other”? This is just another absurd example of feminism and political correctness gone berserk.
Myth: Women are abused more than men. Fact: It is about 50/50, but men are less likely to report abuse. See National Coalition for Men
"Respect Girls"?
Why cast young boys and male teens as some kind of villains and abusers?
Don’t listen to or give any of your money to these creeps!
This just re-enforces the feminist’s view and mantra that all men are abusers, all men are evil, all men are brutal. The new twist? Now they have added young pre-teen boys to their list of villains!
According to the folks at Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org) teen boys should be taking instructions from girls. Why should girls not be taking instructions from boys? Where is this written?
Why is it that the male is always assumed to be the abuser? No one is promoting abuse by anyone, but why demonize young boys who most likely are just thinking about baseball, not abuse. This falsehood only unfairly and unduly stigmatizes boys and only makes the situation worse.
Are you kidding?
Look at some of the crap they at Family Violence Prevention Fund proclaim:
“Men by nature have this thing of always using force. When we were children, we would play with cars and figurines, such as superman and Spiderman, of physically strong men who used force to conquer the bad guys.”
Oh really?
Well, of course ALL boys do this, this is NATURAL. What do you expect boys to play with, dolls? Well of course if you are the “Family Violence Protection Fund” you do!
Now, according to The Family Violence Prevention Fund, ( endabuse.org), our all-American action figures, we have known for years, are abusive pigs! Didn’t spiderman and superman protect women and children? They were heroes because the embodied American values and the “American way”. Now we are casting our childhood heroes as villains, how the world has become turned upside down.
Why is the Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org) using pictures of innocent looking “cute” pre-teenage boys to entice visitors to their site? Is this not a form of child abuse? Is it ok to abuse boys but not girls? Can you imagine if they used pre-teen girls? The howls of protest we would hear! Is this really not child-sex abuse by Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org) using innocent pre-teen boys to promote their cause?
Did these innocent looking young boys give their permission or know they were being abused by Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org) in this manner? Is this not a form of child pornography by Family Violence Prevention Fund? Did their parents see the final ads and understand what is happening and how they were abused by The Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org)?
I urge you to write to The Family Violence Prevention Fund and voice your opinion. Send your emails to: info@endabuse.org.
By The Family Violence Prevention Fund feminizing boys, and suppressing natural behavior, you only build up aggressiveness. Young boys need to role play with physically aggressive and strong behaviors mostly with other boys. This is only natural and how they learn.
Let boys learn the limits of their strength and how to control their aggressiveness, by playing as youngsters and learning so they don’t allow their aggressiveness come out inappropriately. It is natural for boys to grow up as protectors of women and their families.
Boys don’t naturally grow up to become abusers, they are naturally disposed to protect and defend women and girls; unless they are driven into this by unnatural forces, their views distorted, their minds warped. By… let’s see, radical feminist organizations like, well, endabuse.org.
In the end I have a question for the Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org): Who’s abusing who?
Let’s see, Superman and Spiderman, idolized as wholesome, true American heroes for years, decades now for Superman, are now abusing girls, are horrible aggressive abusive pigs according to The Family Violence Prevention Fund (endabuse.org).
What a crazy world this has become!
You reduce abuse and protect women and respect girls by strengthening men and supporting fathers and preserving the familly.
“You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich.
You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift.
You cannot lift the wage earner up by pulling the wage payer down.
You cannot further the brotherhood of man by inciting class hatred.
You cannot build character and courage by taking away men’s initiative and independence.
You cannot help men permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves.”
— Abraham Lincoln
Decline of the Family, Media Bias, National Political
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This is quite possibly the most horrific thing I have seen in a very, very long time.
@John
Yes, that’s why I’m so enraged. The ad made my skin crawl.
I just wrote them an email stating my disappointment at the lack of gender balance in this campaign. Men must awaken themselves to the hidden misandry in today’s society and must make our feelings known at every opportunity…..now is the time to begin resetting the balance between the genders.
Yes, I used to change the subject or politely nod when I heard left-wing feminist crap from my friends or others. Now I speak up!
I’m paraphrasing a famous quote…
“All it takes for evil to prevail is for good people to do nothing.”
Thanks for the information. I’ve pasted this page to my site and hopefully will garner a few more supporters to write in and complain about the blatant hatred for boys that is being promoted by these feminist haters of males.
these sick and criminal feminists should be send to jail, for long time.
Who give them these rights to play with our son’s lives in such a disgusting manners,
Nazi systems!! Abusing children in public, openly,
Sham on them.
We should jail them and close such a junk “organization”.
I am very disappointed, as a feminist. These people who initiate this campaign are not feminists. At least I wouldn’t call them feminists. I know all my feminist friends(women and men) wouldn’t either. These are radical abusers with a lack of common sense.
@Catherine
That’s because they have a different agenda, they need money for their organization. Without victims, there is no cause, without a cause there is no reason for someone to give money, without money there is no way then can exist.
Classic liberal victimization. You are correct, they are not true feminists, but they have adopted some of the false feminist tactics.
How about emphasizing girls becoming stronger and being more inclined to help boys in situations of physical danger. that’s where you have something more like actual equality. just because men’s historical roles involved protecting and defending women (and children) doesn’t mean it can’t be more shared now. History is history, the past is the past, evolutionary or not, it all can change. Nothing is etched in stone.
But yeah, these clothes truly disgust me too. How about at least having t-shirts for girls that say “Respect Boys” too? Because there are many many ways girls don’t respect boys these days, and this kind of entitlment mentaility resulting from being so taking care of and respected at his expense is just one of them.
I’ll be sure to give them a piece of my mind.
Why they target little boy, you ask.
Simple, there is no longer a father in the femaly to throw rock to, so who stay? The fatherless and defenceless littles boys. The only EvilMale™ aviable in the so call family or more accuratly femaly to be abused is the boy. As far they (feminists like catherine) are concern, males (unborn, baby, boy, men or WWI veteran) are just plain shit.
I have absolutely no idea what the “Awaiting In structions” is supposed to mean, but I know a good deal about this FVPF (endabuse.org), and have looksed at their funding kind of skyrocket in a certain year. See usaspending.gov and look it up. Primary funders are fatherhood-related. I also searched their site, once for “mothers” and another time for “fathers” — doubt if it’s changed recently. Fathers came up MUCH more and more often as headings. . . . . . One of their original Board, Esta Soler, also was with CFFPP.org, which was a group with the word “Fathers” in its name (and clearly its emphasis) but changed it to a version more “PC” which said “family” instead.
FVPF is in the same business the others are in (helping neither men, nor women, but themselves) “education” and conferencing. I went through some real hell one year, losing my kids to an ex-batterer, stolen overnight and GONE. FVPF didn’t make one bit of squat difference in any of my case history over a 20 year period, that I can tell (and I’m female). I am straight, single now, only married once, not promiscuous before marriage, and was assaulted straight through my own. A civil restraining order saved my life, and my ex’s and I’m sure my kids. One of the things I notice (being a fly on the wall at NCOM, above) is that some men’s groups are NEVER happy enough. FVPF is about as father-friendly a DV group as I’ve seen, and they’re LEADERS in the field. Go to Taggs.hhs.gov and look them up.
If I’d had more feminism in me to start with, my marriage would probably be together right now — no man likes a doormat, even if his actions say he’s looking for one. I was ON the “doormat” (FLOOR) plenty for years, through assaults. AHe found a twice-divorced religious bitch, who helped make my life (with two growing girls and a rebuilding work life) hell, they then stole my kids (nothing ever prosecuted — at all), she kicked him out (serves him right) and now my children are fatherless and motherless, and no child support — because my work was destroyed for daring to say No, Stop, and mean it.
If you want something to get enraged at that you really think is taking the nation down, get back to my site and learn about the federal funding on designer families. But quit bellyaching at one of the most “on your side” nonprofits around!!
“luv” — me.
PS. Why not take a look at “Big Brother” making children of us all, at taxpayer expense, so much as the VAWA, which is more than countered by the NFI and buddies. The real issue is much more tax-based // socialism. By the way, you all ever heard of honor killings in the Muslim world? Is that the direction you prefer to go? No more “uppity women” — except when there’s a war and someone is needed to fill the places vacated? Give me a break! (and look at: Boards, Staff, and funding. At least then you’ll be able to hold an intelligent conversation.).
@Catherine
“I am very disappointed, as a feminist. These people who initiate this campaign are not feminists. At least I wouldn’t call them feminists.”
And there inlies the problem… You believe that feminism is what you decide it to be. Your mistake is in thinking that you are the feminist, and they are some radical fringe movement – When the reality is very different. The radical feminists are the central core group of feminism, and you are little more than a friendly face, a human shield. Can’t you see that they are using you? Feminism is not simply a movement, it is an ideology and a belief system – founded on the principals of hatred and animosity.
Are you kidding me?
The whole violence prevention program, focuses on Helping those who are victims, girl or boy. They Help the victims get stronger so that they can deal with the traumatic experience whether or not its emotion of physical. More men deal with JUST emotional abuse, and women deal more with physical, which when anyone is physically abused they also have an emotional problems afterwards. Places ALL over the world have women that are being physically abused just because of the fact that they are women. Youre sitting here calling them cowards, when they have the bravery to stand up to whole cultures that think that its JUST to beat women (emotionally/phsyically) They give women and men the tools to be healed after dealing with an abusive relationship. They aren’t just sitting there hating the world, they are going out there to help build up the weak, so they can be strong too. If anyone can critically look at what this ad is saying, its asking us to step up and make sure that we dont teach our boys that the violent behavior is ok. not that they think its ok, but that its us who gives the instructions, teaches this behavior, and its in our hands to stop this. If they sat there and made an ad that covers every single group that is abused, that would be crazy.
It’s extremely dismaying that feminists will go to such lengths to promote antimale propaganda. They are despicable people without an ounce of integrity or decency. It’s shameful that the media doesn’t investigate and report on these horrible excuses for human beings. The term “feminazis” is an apt one for the grotesque creatures.
@Anna
If that is the intent of the campaign then you and the Ad makers are out of touch with reality and have little idea of what others find offensive. Some people might benefit from some sensitivity training. And concerning emotional abuse, it can be just as damaging and have longer term effects than physical abuse. The suggesting the program is to help both girls and boys is not evident in this campaign.
The campaign has done little more than alienate its target group. Some focus group testing might have in order. The phrase “Awaiting Instructions” has different meanings for different people in the context it is given. My initial reaction was wow this is dreadful. It reads to me “Respect girls and do what they instruct you to do”, ie take a subservient posture and know your place in Society.
Simply an awful and insulting Ad campaign and I question the full motivation and competence of those behind it.
The folks at the Family Violence Prevention Fund should have a restraining order filed against them. One that prevents them from ever going near boys 14 and under.
@Anna
How would anyone know by these ads that its supposed to be fore females AND males? I sure wouldn’t. Why defend this confusing ad?